It’s normal for everyone to feel anxious once in a while. However, in some people anxiety becomes overwhelming. When nervousness affects your work, school or interpersonal relationships, you might need help. Did you know what you worry about changes with age? Do you know what worries people even more than dying?
Let’s take a look at the most common causes of anxiety and what you can do to feel calmer.
What’s the Difference Between Being Anxious and an Anxiety Disorder?
Let’s say you have an important meeting, or maybe you’re about to start an important race you’ve been training for. In these cases, it’s normal to feel somewhat anxious.
An anxiety disorder, on the other hand, is a medical diagnosis. Anxiety disorders are the most common mental health problem in the U.S., affecting 40 million adults. At any time 18.1% of the population suffers from an anxiety disorder.
What are Anxiety Disorders?
The medical definition of anxiety disorders divides the problem into several different categories. For adults, these are:
● Agoraphobia – Fear of places or situations that might make you feel panic, trapped, helpless or embarrassed.
● Anxiety disorder due to a medical condition – Caused by a specific medical problem, like an overactive thyroid gland.
● Generalized anxiety disorder – You are very anxious and worried about everyday life activity. The anxiety is out of proportion, and you can’t control it.
● Panic disorder – You have episodes of very strong anxiety, fear or terror that peaks quickly. Symptoms include feeling of impending doom, shortness of breath, chest pressure, or heart racing. You might worry that panic attacks will happen again.
● Social anxiety disorder (social phobia) – You are afraid of and avoid social situations due to embarrassment, feeling self-conscious, or worry about being judged.
● Phobias – You feel very anxious or afraid when exposed to a specific object or situation. You may even panic, and you try to avoid these things.
● Substance-induced anxiety disorder – Related to drug abuse, medications, toxins or drug withdrawal.
● Other anxiety disorders might not meet the characteristics above. Still, your symptoms are severe enough to disrupt your life.
What Causes Anxiety Disorders?
While there is no single cause of anxiety, there are certain factors that may be important. For example, some medical conditions can be associated with anxiety. These are:
● Heart disease
● Overactive thyroid (hyperthyroidism)
● Lung problems such as emphysema (COPD) and asthma
● Drug and alcohol abuse or withdrawal
● Withdrawal from anti-anxiety medications (benzodiazepines)
● Chronic pain or irritable bowel syndrome
● Rare tumors that make “fight-or-flight” hormones
Other factors might increase your risk of anxiety while they might not be the actual cause, such as:
● Trauma – A history of abuse or trauma or witnessing a traumatic event.
● Health problems – Having an illness can increase worry.
● Stressful life moments – A big event or stressful situations may lead to increased anxiety.
● Personality – Some personality types are more likely to be anxious.
● Other mental health issues like depression may be associated with anxiety.
● Family history – Anxiety disorders can run in families.
● Drug or alcohol abuse/withdrawal can cause anxiety.
What Do We Worry About?
Even though general life stress may not lead to a full-fledged anxiety disorder, managing worry helps keep you calm. Still, different age groups worry about different things. For example, students typically worry about relationships, work, money, not being sure about their future, and lack of confidence.
As a population ages, these worries persist, but health also becomes one of the top worries. The interesting thing is that worry tends to decline as you age unless you have a diagnosable mental health condition.
Studies even look at where people worry. Most do it at home, and – you guessed it – we worry in our bedrooms. Even the timing of most of our worry was clocked at between 9 p.m. and 3 a.m. This comes as no surprise to anyone who has tossed and turned all night long worrying.
Do People With Anxiety Disorders Worry About Different Things?
The quick answer to this is no, people who suffer from anxiety disorders worry about the same things as everyone else. The difference is in the intensity and duration of the worry. When the anxiety begins to interfere with work, relationships, school and life, then it’s probably time to get professional help.
There are some instances when anxiety disorders are much different than the usual worries we have. For instance, phobias may be unreasonable fears of everyday objects or places.
What Do People Fear Most?
Lots of polls appear every year cataloging what people fear. The results can range anywhere from corrupt government to terrorism to economic collapse. There is also one issue that strikes a deep fear in almost everyone, and it isn’t the fear of death. But first, here are many common fears that people name in various polls:
● Corrupt government
● Terrorist attacks
● Not having enough money for the future
● Loved ones dying or getting ill
● Economic or financial collapse
● Identity theft
● The Affordable Health Care Act/”Obamacare”
● Natural disasters
Now death itself is also high on the list of fears, especially for older adults. Still, the number one fear – especially as we get older – is the loss of autonomy. This could mean getting your driver’s license taken away, losing your mobility, or getting admitted to a nursing home. The loss of independence is truly frightening to almost everyone.
How to Manage Worry and Anxiety
One of the most helpful things to understand about anxiety is that you are not alone. As we mentioned earlier, millions suffer from anxiety disorders. The number of people who are anxious, but don’t have a disorder, probably numbers in the hundreds of millions. Here are some of the best tips to getting a handle on your anxiety.
You’re Already Doing It
Just reading about it and educating yourself help you manage any problem better. There are a ton of sites out there, but try to look for ones run by professionals in mental health. The more you understand about the problem, the better equipped you are to handle it.
Consider online anxiety forum sites too. These are places where everyday people with the similar problem share their experiences. You might find a good doctor or coping mechanisms that work wonders. In any case, you’ll at least know that others are out there living with their fears just like you.
Yes, you guessed it, exercise is great for relieving anxiety. Before you jump to the next suggestion though, think about this. You could end up seeing a bunch of doctors, taking pills and seeing a therapist for years. That’s a lot of time and energy spent. What if you just pivot the focus of your mind to get serious about exercise. You might avoid a lot of pain. Exercise naturally releases hormones that make you feel good. This is way cheaper and safer than any pharmaceutical product.
Lack of rest magnifies any stressful situation. The right amount varies, but around 7-8 hours per night seems best. If you’re having trouble sleeping, try these tactics:
● No coffee, tea, caffeinated or sugary drinks at night.
● Go to bed at the same time every night.
● Get up at the same time every morning.
● If you can’t sleep, get out of bed and read until you feel sleepy again.
● Do not use electronic devices in bed. The light disrupts sleep patterns.
● Make sure your bedroom is completely dark when you sleep.
● Consider using a “white noise” maker while sleeping. This can cancel out other noise that keeps you awake.
These are steps to achieve good sleep hygiene. This means your sleep is more ordered and more restful.
Getting connected with your spiritual side can have incredible benefits. Consider meditation and prayer to help reduce anxious thoughts. It might be difficult at first, since your mind is racing. But keep at it. At first, just let your mind race, and let your thoughts unwind. Letting this happen in a quiet place might be just what you need to begin to get free of anxiety. In many cases, running around busy all the time doesn’t let you process thoughts and feelings. This generates anxiety.
You can start by setting aside 15 minutes every day or every other day to meditation. There are even apps online that can help you. Make sure you choose one that matches your choice of religion. If you mix things up too much, you might just cause yourself more anxiety.
If you feel like things are really out of control, talk to a professional mental health expert. In some cases, you may even need medication. The point is you don’t have to suffer alone. And don’t stop there. Talk to a trusted friend or family member as well. Find someone who will help you understand – and overcome – your fears.
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